You know, I think we’re beating around the bush here,” he reportedly told them. “I’ve been told I’m not supposed to say this – however, women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimised.
I hate the word slut it’s just a continuum of the repertoire of sexist words flung daily at women. Neither am I supportive of reclaiming oppressive language. I have thought long and hard about this (and do have much sympathy with Cath Elliott on this).
But on this occasion I totally support Slutwalk. Why? Because the political message and meaning behind Slutwalk exposes the hypocrisies, contradictions and double standards women face. Taking the word “slut” by politicising the words of PC Sanguinetti.
Along with the message that if a woman dresses like a slut don’t be surprised if she gets raped and furthermore …. don’t expect any support from the cops or the courts. Simply, it’s your own fault… Blaming the victim is a favourite in this society it’s also easy as it takes away issues of accountability nor responsibility of the oppressor rather the spotlight and onus is on the oppressed. Always blame the powerless. Neat trick and it works unfortunately.
I saw, briefly, a discussion on Channel 4 News between 2 women, one was a journalist and the other organiser for Slutwalk. The journalist (I can’t recall her name) was wrong when she said that the police officer who originally made the remarks was a kind of one off. He’s not, the views espoused by Michael Sanguinetti is prevalent in this society. They shouldn’t be but they are. Women who have been sexually assaulted or raped are held to account over what they were wearing whether high heels, short skirts, thongs….and also her sexual history will re-surafce with the…..well, she asked for it! I always hoped that these ignorant and oppressive ideas would die out, disappear into the ether, banished into the dustbin of sexist myths… But no, these myths are as strong as ever. Women’s bodies are objectified and commodified under patriarchal capitalism. Women are damned if they do and damned if they don’t.
It’s not about how a woman dresses, behaves or condemning her by putting her sexual history under the miscroscope. It’s about power and control. It’s about only 6.1% of rape cases end in conviction, it’s about destroying the misogynistic myths that victimise and blame the woman, it’s about 1 in 4 women in the UK will experience an act of domestic violence at some point in her lifetime, it’s about the uphill struggle women encounter when they have been raped from the police to the judiciary along with the myths that exist to condemn rape victims/survivors.
That’s the realities of rape not how a woman dresses and that’s why I, as a Socialist feminist, will be there on Saturday 11 June from Trafalgar Square, 1pm as part of Slutwalk. Seems as well Slutwalk has proliferated globally.
Wherever we go, however we dress, yes means yes and no means no!
